You often hear new mums saying that their baby cries because of hunger
all the time.
It is true that in earlier days when your baby is very young, you
don’t get much of an idea from your baby about their feeding needs and
requirements.
Midwives usually suggest a shortcut solution to knowing when and how
much, by recommending that you feed your new baby for certain hours of the day,
such as every two hours for newborns.
Despite this, you may find
yourself feeding your baby more often than the recommended time.
As a new mum,
you’re unable to understand your baby’s hunger cues and it’s understandable
that you want to err on the side of caution.
Feeding can be very stressful for new parents, as they do not want their
babies to go hungry, and on the other hand they fear over-feeding the baby.
It’s normal to ask yourself,‘am I doing this right?’and struggle to find the
right balance.
Just like adults, infants have a satisfying point.
Although they cannot
tell you by talking, they definitely give some signals to show their interest
in feeding or that they feel full enough.
Generally, health practitioners will tell you the standard requirements
of your baby’s feeding needs: they can in fact differ from baby to baby.
It
depends on how much energy a baby needs, which depends primarily upon the
baby’s health.
That’s why the best way is to observe carefully and understand
your baby’s signs of hunger and fullness.
Once you understand your baby’s cues, it becomes much easier to manage
baby’s feeding schedule.
Moreover it helps improve your baby’s physical and
mental health.
On the other hand, if parents are unable to understand their
cues, it not only confuses the baby but it will also end up either over feeding
the baby or leaving the baby hungry when they actually need energy.
Cues that your baby is hungry
Not all babies tell you in the same way that they’re feeling hungry, but
the majority of babies show some of these common signs of hunger:
Sucking on finger or fist
This is the most common and earliest sign of babies to tell their mother
that they are feeling hungry.
They usually do this when they are awake and
hungry.
Lipsmacking
A large number of infants do this while they are sleeping and hungry.
But lip smacking does not always mean that baby is hungry.
Some children do
this regardless of being hungry.
Crying
This is a very late sign of hunger.
By this time your baby is very
hungry and because you have been unable to understand their other general
hunger signals, the baby becomes very stressed and restless and at this point
they are essentially communicating unhappiness and stress.
They tend to start
crying at a lower pitch which slowly rises higher until you pick up your baby and
start feeding.
However, hunger may not be the only reason your baby is crying, read more on why do babies cry here.
Restlessness
Your baby might start moving their head, hands and legs.
This could be
one of the signs of hungry baby, but not always necessarily.
Waking up
Your baby might not be able to go into deep sleep, or else they wake up
frequently during the night and open their mouth.
Rooting reflex
You will notice this reflex very often during your baby’s first few
days.
Your baby will move to the feeder nipple or your breast and start making
sucking movements, as soon as you touch their face.
Slowly, as your baby gets
older,they learn to make this motion only when they feel hungry.
Opening mouth and smiling expressions
When your baby is interested in feeding and they want more, they will
smile during feeding and/or open their mouth wide to ask for more.
Cues that your baby is full
Falls asleep
When you baby falls asleep while feeding, it often means your baby is
full.
Now your baby will sleep well.
Stops sucking
As soon as your baby feels full they will slowly stop sucking on the
breast or feeder but they do not let it go.
This is the sign that you can end
the feeding session and move the baby to their cot.
Turns head away
When baby feels full, they can sometimes turn their head away from the
bottle or mother’s breast.
Closes mouth
Baby closes his mouth when full.
Spits out or throws up
When baby has fulfilled their requirement they might spit out the nipple
and a little milk.
If your baby is over full,they might throw up and need
burping.
Looks around
As your baby grows a little they might show their disinterest by moving
their head around.
When they show more interest in their surroundings rather
than feeding, they’ve probably had enough for the moment.
Note:
There can be other signs beyond the ones mentioned above.
Moreover,these gestures won’t necessarily always mean that your baby is hungry
or full; there can be other reasons behind any of these gestures.
It is best to
always observe your baby’s behaviour closely and practice recognising the
actual reasons for your baby’s cues, depending upon the situation.